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Why do people always tell me:
“I bet you can eat anything you want to”.
Last time I checked just about everyone could eat whatever they wanted to, and how am I suppose to respond to that question?
Today I actually had a man say that to me, and it totally took be aback, I mean women say that to me all the time, but never men.
So I reply to him,
“are you jealous, or something”
and he responds back,
“Nah, because when I take you shopping you will look nice in everything.”
All I could do was laugh…
And why do people always say to me:
“you are so little, like you are so skinny. You are like the littlest thing in the building.”
And what the heck am I suppose to say to that. Especially when the people saying this are nowhere as small as I am…
I don’t get to walk around and say:
“You are fat as hell, omg you are so big. How come you are so big?”
Nor do I even think that’s appropriate to say to anyone, and I never even have those thoughts. If I cant say that to you, don’t say it to me.
At one point when I was a lot younger I had a problem being so skinny, and I actually wanted to be a lot bigger. So whenever someone pointed this out it made me very uncomfortable. I have gotten over that, and I am comfortable in my own skin..but I still don’t need the commentary about my body. Physical appearances really really aren’t that serious to me..so I hope this doesn’t come off as being condescending.
I also understand that what people say have more to do with their feelings, than it does with me as a person. I just had to vent. Thanks for the outlet.
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Friday, September 5, 2008
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5 comments:
OMG LMAO...I bet people hit you with the good ol "do you ever gain weight?" as well.
Imagine asking someone "Do you ever LOSE weight?"
RIGHT??!! do i get to ask that..no i dont.
ugh.
stand around lola and you won tget it as much shes smaller
ugh soooo right! i can't agree more!!
haha...yeah you are right. sometimes i even tell her you are so little.
but i feel we are friends i can say that...random strangers say these things to me.
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